Click that link - go on. There's a very interesting discussion on the boundaries of degradation and respect/dominant and submissive natures in the bedroom. Both the blogger and her anonymous poster who presents an opposing argument have such valid points, it's hard to know who to agree with. I do feel very strongly that what happens in the bedroom is completely separate from how I would expect to be treated in everyday life, and neither should have a bearing on the other. But then, I only have sex with men intelligent enough to recognise those boundaries and distinctions. And simultaneously, you can't deny human memory. Usually it's a great thing: you look at someone and your knees go all trembly and you can't help but remember the things that you did to each other the other night. But I can understand that that can also be a drawback: you can't forget, can't stop viewing them in the light of those sexy things you did, and so can't draw the line - or can, but it's a wobbly one - under what happens in the bedroom.
Food for thought.
So while you read sexy things, look at some nice photos too, all copyright @BinaryDad.
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